Friday, July 10, 2009

What Would Willie Do?


Those of you who have known me for a while might have the suspicion that I am wound up a little tight. This is not entirely wrong. I have a tendency to go at things full tilt. This could be signs of a manic/depressive disorder or too much caffeine and beer.


Lately things have been a little rough. Life doesn’t always work out according to plan. Expectations often exceed recompense, you can’t always get what you want. Fortunately there is always a country song to set things into perspective. I was riding to meet a friend at 5:45 AM with all of my turmoil's rumbling in my mind. My head light went out and I had to stop and fix it. I had hit a bad bump and things got loose. It occurred to me that I had better get my mind on my riding and forget about the distractions. Then it hit me, the song that fixes everything. “What Would Willie Do?”


I got myself all worked up about the local bike club. I didn’t think the race course they selected was all that safe and when I protested I got shot down pretty hard. It was hey you, get off of my cloud. The club is taking a direction I don’t agree with and getting involved with too many events without enough money or volunteers. I was taking it all seriously and personal, getting way to emotionally involved and then I thought, What would Willie do?


Well he’d just take a deep breath and then he’d let it all go.


Right now my bike repair business is tanking.  No one has been in for service or repairs for weeks on end. There is a new bike shop with lots of shiny bikes, a good looking young owner and air-conditioning. There isn't even a single mosquito in his whole shop. I was starting to feel like nobody liked poor pitiful me any more but it hit me again, What would Willie do?


And he’d take another deep breath and let it all go.


Then my bank says if I don’t have $10,000 in my account they are going to charge me $20 a month for checking. My cat is 14 and not getting around too well. I’ve had four flat tires in three weeks . I have a catering job and a major art show coming up and I am really starting to stress, and heading for my 19th nervous breakdown and....What would Willie do?


and he’d take another deep breath.... and he’d hold it.


Yes there is always a good country song for just about every situation. In this case it isn’t really “ What Would Willie Do?” It is a song by one of the old outlaws though. It’s “Luchenbach, Texas” or Back to the Basics of Life. I did a lot of thinking and beat myself up pretty bad for not doing better. This of course did no good what so ever. So I am going back to the basics of life. I am going to get my catering job done, whittle away my to do list one step at a time and put up one hell of a show. I’m going to appreciate my ancient cat while she’s still with us. The bike club is going on low priority and riding is going on high priority. The bike business will get reinvented as something else, or not. The main thing is to quit whining and get back to having fun and enjoying life and the time I have with my wife. It’s time to remember the basics of life.


Sometimes you get what you need.



Special thanks to Bruce Robison, Waylon Jennings and the Lads.


4 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I wouldn't take the bike club too serious, especially if it's the "mcallen cycling team". I felt like an outsider the whole time I was there (~2 years)and i truly made an effort to fit in. Don't get me wrong there are a few good people in there, unfortunately the "I'm too good for you" drove me away. Stick to your friends there....and ignore the rest!

3:27 PM  
Blogger 331 Miles said...

Wound up tight? Not you! The basics are always good. Get those right, and the rest has a way of happening on its own.

FYI -- Bruce Robison wrote "What Would Willie Do", and if you like it, you should check out "Can't Get There from Here". It's another good 'un.

3:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The good you find in others, is in you too.

The faults you find in others, are your faults as well.

After all, to recognize something you must know it.

The possibilities you see in others, are possible for you as well.

The beauty you see around you, is your beauty.

The world around you is a reflection, a mirror showing you the person you are.

To change your world, you must change yourself.

To blame and complain will only make matters worse.

Whatever you care about, is your responsibility.

What you see in others, shows you yourself.

See the best in others,and you will be your best.

Give to others, and you give to yourself.

Appreciate beauty, and you will be beautiful.

Admire creativity, and you will be creative.

Love, and you will be loved.

Seek to understand, and you will be understood.

Listen, and your voice will be heard.

Teach, and you will learn.

Show your best face to the mirror,

and you'll be happy with the face looking back at you.

5:41 PM  
Blogger Eduardo Arguelles said...

got my peugot frame Curtis!! Can't wait to make this bad boy into a bad ass commuter!!

life is strange man, ive stopped trying to figure it out and just kinda go with the flow...

9:38 AM  

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